So this is love...mhmhmhmhm...so this is love...

There are many things that scare me. And no, not as in scary movie or gory stuff. Just things that people do/say/believe tend to scare me. Like yesterday at church they were handing out donuts to the little kids ('nuff said there!), and this little girl was chowing down a whole éclair! Who does that? Or even Miley Cyrus...honestly enough, that girl scares me to death. How can she possibly be o.k. with herself for doing the things she does?

Anywho...lately I've been doing a lot of thinking...okay I'm always thinking. But lately I've been thinking a lot about young relationships and what constitutes a relationship today. It's sad to realize that young people today look at love as a physical process. Abstinence is seen as a such a tacky thing, no matter how helpful it can be in a young relationship.

But beyond that, like it's sad to think that many girls who are on the verge of adulthood still think of a "real" relationship as being touchy-feely and "cuddling". Well, what about actually getting to know the person first?

Too many young men and women are getting to know each other's bodies before getting to know each other as people when entering into a relationship. And we still wonder why our divorce rates are so high?

Maybe its stuff like this that still has me detached from every committing myself to anything close to a relationship like that. But then again...it's me. LOL.